in a healthy, close relationship of any kind, when something upsets you, you need to bring it up. as soon as possible, even. cultivate an environment in which you both can talk about things that upset you, with the utmost attention to everyone’s feelings. it’s a really simple thing to do but it’s a thing i’ve been working on for a while and i’m getting actual nice things happening as a result
I hope you are giving yourself enough food and water. I hope you are eating yummy ice cream when you want it and skipping the gym to hang out with your friends sometimes. I hope you are not letting anyone tell you how to live and removing the toxic people from your life. I hope you are making the best decisions for yourself and taking care of yourself in every way. I hope you are happy.